Abuse, whether emotional, physical, or psychological, leaves deep and lasting scars. These scars extend beyond the immediate effects, profoundly impacting the brain’s neuropathways. This makes recovery a complex and challenging journey. Understanding how abuse affects the brain and how therapeutic techniques like hypnosis can aid in healing is crucial for those seeking to overcome their traumatic experiences.

The Brain’s Response to Abuse

When someone experiences abuse, their brain undergoes significant changes. The brain is an adaptive organ, constantly rewiring itself based on experiences. In the context of abuse, this adaptability can have detrimental effects

1. Hyperactivation of the Amygdala: The amygdala, the brain’s fear center, becomes hyperactive in individuals who have experienced abuse. This heightened state of alertness can lead to increased anxiety, hypervigilance, and an exaggerated startle response. Even after the abuse has ended, the brain may remain in a state of constant fear and alertness. This is similar to pathways with drug use, which often explains why people say, ‘I can’t get over this’ or I can’t get them out of my head.

2. Hippocampal Damage: The hippocampus, responsible for memory formation and emotional regulation, can be damaged by chronic stress and trauma. Abuse can shrink the hippocampus, leading to difficulties in forming new memories and regulating emotions. This damage can also contribute to dissociation and difficulty recalling specific details of the abuse.

3. Prefrontal Cortex Dysfunction: The prefrontal cortex, which governs decision-making, impulse control, and executive function, is often impaired in those who have experienced abuse. This impairment can result in difficulties with concentration, planning, and making decisions, further complicating the recovery process.

Neuropathways and the Cycle of Abuse

The brain’s neuropathways are essentially the routes through which neurons communicate. When abuse occurs, these pathways are altered, reinforcing negative patterns of thinking and behavior:

1. Negative Thought Patterns: Abuse often instills a sense of worthlessness, shame, and guilt. These negative emotions are reinforced through neuropathways that become more ingrained with repeated abusive experiences. Breaking these thought patterns requires significant effort and time as the brain needs to form new, healthier pathways.

2. Behavioral Triggers: Certain stimuli can trigger memories and emotions associated with abuse, causing a person to relive the trauma. These triggers are embedded in the brain’s neuropathways, making avoidance and coping strategies essential but difficult to implement.

3. Attachment and Trust Issues: Abuse, especially when it occurs in close relationships, can severely impact one’s ability to form healthy attachments. The brain’s pathways related to trust and intimacy become damaged, leading to difficulties in future relationships and a tendency to isolate oneself.

Healing and Rewiring the Brain with Neuroscience

Recovery from abuse involves not only emotional healing but also the physical rewiring of the brain’s neuropathways. This process is challenging but achievable through various therapeutic approaches, including hypnosis.

1. Mindfulness and Moving Meditation: Practices like mindfulness and meditation can reduce the hyperactivation of the amygdala and promote relaxation. These practices help in calming the mind, reducing anxiety, and improving overall mental health.

2. Healthy Relationships: Going no contact with abusers or setting firm boundaries is necessary. Building and maintaining supportive relationships can help in the healing process. Positive social interactions can stimulate the brain’s reward pathways, promoting feelings of safety and belonging.

4. Physical Activity*: Regular exercise has been shown to have numerous benefits for mental health, including the reduction of anxiety and depression. Physical activity can also promote the growth of new brain cells, aiding in the recovery of the hippocampus and other affected areas. Tai Chi, Yoga, Nature walking, and moving meditations are great here!

5. Education and Awareness: Understanding the impact of abuse on the brain can empower survivors to seek appropriate help and remain patient with their progress. Education also reduces stigma and encourages a supportive environment for healing. You can learn more about this and healing in my group program HERE

The Role of Hypnosis in Healing

Hypnosis is an often-underutilized therapeutic technique that can significantly aid in the recovery process for those who have experienced abuse. By inducing a state of deep relaxation and focused attention, hypnosis can help rewire the brain’s neuropathways and facilitate healing.

1. Accessing the Unconscious Mind: Hypnosis allows individuals to access their unconscious mind, where deeply ingrained negative thought patterns and memories of abuse reside. By working directly with the mind with hypnosis we can help the individual reframe these thoughts and memories in a more positive light.

2. Reducing Anxiety and Stress: Hypnosis can help reduce the hyperactivation of the amygdala by promoting a state of deep relaxation. This can decrease anxiety levels, reduce stress, and alleviate symptoms of hypervigilance.

3. Improving Emotional Regulation: Through hypnosis, individuals can learn techniques to better regulate their emotions like self-hypnosis. This can be particularly beneficial for those with damaged hippocampi, as it can aid in managing emotional responses and reducing the intensity of traumatic memories.  

4. Enhancing Self-Esteem and Confidence: Hypnosis can be used to reinforce positive affirmations and beliefs about oneself. This can help counteract the negative self-perceptions that abuse often instills, boosting self-esteem and confidence.

5. Addressing Behavioral Triggers: Hypnosis can help desensitize individuals to triggers that remind them of their abuse. By gradually exposing the subconscious mind to these triggers in a controlled and safe environment, hypnosis can reduce their impact and help individuals develop healthier responses.


The road to recovery from abuse is long and complex, primarily because of the profound effects on the brain’s neuropathways. However, with the right support, therapeutic interventions, and self-care strategies, including hypnosis and mind-body medicine, it is possible to rewire the brain, heal from the trauma, and reclaim one’s life. Awareness and understanding of these neurological impacts, coupled with the use of hypnosis, are crucial steps toward overcoming the lasting effects of abuse.

Kelli Hughart is a PhD candidate at the College of Integrative Medicine and Health Sciences at Saybrook University. She is a Mind-Body Medicine expert a Board-Certified Hypnotist and a Certified Trauma/Transpersonal Hypnotherapist within the Integrative Medicine Health model. Additionally, she has advanced certifications in Trauma-Informed Emotional Recovery Coaching, CBT Hypnotherapy, Hypnos, EMDR, and Clinical/Applied Hypnosis.

As a holistic healer for the last 35 years, she is also a Clinical Master Herbalist and Clinical Master Aromatherapist, Functional Medicine Certified Health Coach, Reiki Master/Teacher, Flower Essence Practitioner, and Medicine Maker. Kelli loves nature and gives back to community by doing wildlife rehabilitation and grows at risk and rare plants. She has been consulted by other clinicians (MDs, DOs, NP, etc) and interviewed by local magazines, newspapers and been guest teacher and speaker at herbal conferences and colleges.

Even though she earned a 5th degree black and blue belt in Brazilian Jiujitsu, the signs of psychological abuse in her long-term relationship eluded her and she developed years of nightmares and panic attacks and was later diagnosed with complex stress syndrome and it triggered an physical illness too, thus she found herself at the darkest point in her life from the  abusive relationship. Conventional medicine failed and she discovered a natural method of healing that she now shares with others. Now Kelli’s specialty is overcoming emotional abuse and recovery of ‘burnout’ (allostatic load burden is the appropriate term).  She lives in Charleston with her Irish Terrier, Slainte (sounds like sloncha) and has 1 daughter and 5 grandbabies that are the loves of her life!